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Some Clients Want Romance, Real Love From Sex Workers

While it is commonly believed that men who pay for sex are attempting to avoid emotional commitment, a new study finds that men who become regular clients of sex workers often develop feelings of romance and love. This study is published in a recent edition of , a SAGE journal.

“In recent years, we have come to see a gradual of independent escort prostitution, where sexual encounters have come to resemble quasi-dating relationships,” stated study author . “Our study shows that regular clients of a particular often come to experience feelings of deep affection, which can progress into an authentic love story.”

In this new study, and co-author Ronald Weitzer analyzed 2,442 postings on an online discussion board from a sex provider review site where more than a million clients of sex workers read and post about their experiences. Approximately one-third included a discussion about between sex workers and their clients, many of whom expressed a desire to grow their relationships beyond the physical level in the form of sharing private feelings and mutual love.

“These relationships follow a conventionally romantic script that normalizes the liaison and destigmatizes both provider and client,” stated Milrod. “The study shows that this kind of normalization may manifest itself in a merger of finances, families and finally monogamous partnerships – the provider is no longer just a supplier of the girlfriend experience, but a real-life romantic partner.”


The article “The Intimacy Prism: Emotion Management among the Clients of Escorts” in Men and Masculinities, is available free for a limited time at: http://jmm.sagepub.com/content/early/2012/07/05/1097184X12452148.full.pdf+html
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